“My mother told me…” It’s a phrase that echoes in my mind now more than ever. These simple words hold a lifetime of lessons, love, and memories. My mom recently passed away, and while the loss feels overwhelming, her words and the values she instilled in me will forever guide my life and my business.
My mother was my biggest supporter, my fiercest critic, and my shield maiden. She was my protector when I needed her most, always standing by me in times of uncertainty, guiding me with her wisdom and unshakable strength. But in her hardest times, when her health struggles took a toll, the roles reversed. I did my best to support her, though I often felt like I couldn’t do enough. It was one of the toughest responsibilities I’ve ever faced, but it was also one of the most important.
She wasn’t the type to hold back—if I wasn’t working hard enough or living up to my potential, she’d let me know in no uncertain terms. “If you’re going to do something, do it right,” she’d say. That voice kept me accountable, especially in the early days of starting my business, NetMechanic.
Her passing has left a hole in my life that I can’t describe. But as I move forward, I find myself clinging to her words. “Work hard, care deeply, and never lose sight of the people who make it all possible.” That’s what she told me, and that’s the legacy I hope to carry forward.
I’ll be the first to admit that I messed up in the last three years. The pressure, the responsibilities, and life’s challenges got the better of me. I wasn’t at my best, and I know it. But now, I’m determined to make things right—to climb the mountain that’s in front of me, not for myself, but for my mother and the people I love. For the clients I love working with.
My mom wasn’t just interested in what I was doing; she cared about who I was doing it with. She knew my staff by name, always asked how they were, and stressed about their well-being as if they were family. She taught me that business isn’t just about numbers—it’s about people. Those values are at the heart of everything I do today.
To my mom: thank you for being the voice in my head that pushes me to be better. Thank you for being my shield maiden when life became overwhelming and for showing me the meaning of unconditional love. I’ll miss you every single day, but I’ll honor you in everything I do.
For anyone who has ever supported me, worked with me, or even cheered me on from afar—just know, my mother’s influence is part of the reason I am where I am today. She gave me the courage to dream and the drive to make it happen.
Rest in peace, Mom. Everything I do is for you. I’ll make you proud up there.
